How to keep him dating and not have sex
When you start dating someone new, there’s always the question of when you should have sex for the first time.Society says after three dates, your grandmother says after marriage, your penis says right now…but when’s the actual right time?Maybe you really like this guy and you want to explore a relationship with him. You can say something like “Hey Jake, I want to chat with you about something that’s a bit vulnerable for me to share. ” If it’s true, start off with saying what you enjoyed about it. (Assuming that everything was consensual, having sex was a mutual choice by two adults.Or perhaps you’ve never had sex too soon and you just got caught up in the moment. There is nothing wrong or bad about it.) This next one is important. Say something like “Thank you so much for listening to me.Well, thanks to science, we now know exactly how long you should wait, for optimal happiness.According to a new survey by Match.com, couples who waited 5 dates before sleeping together reported being 35% happier together compared to those who had sex on the first date.
Send the right signals to guys you date by slowing things down until you learn you're truly compatible.
When the time is right, the sex you have will be meaningful and more fulfilling on multiple levels.